#15 Characteristics Of A Good Husband



Now that you have an idea about the checklist, and the qualities you should possess to be the perfect husband, let’s look at some of the characteristics of an ideal husband.

1. Be A Gentleman:

  • It is one of the prime characteristics that you should possess to be a good husband.
  • No matter what your wife tells, she will always love to be in a relationship with a gentleman.
  • There’s nothing huge or extravagant that you need to; you can kiss her before leaving the house or after coming back home, when she is busy with the shopping, you need to be patient enough and then carry her bags for her, when you go out on dates, make sure that you pay for them.
  • These simple things will make her deeply fall in love with you.

2. Be Courteous:

  • Respecting you wife is critical, as it will make her feel that you value her a lot. That your wife is a different person that you with her ideas and thoughts, you just need to acknowledge them.
  • You should never force her to follow your dreams or visions.
  • You need to keep your promises that you made to her and be punctual about your meetings or pick-ups.

3. Avoid Cheating Or Lying:

  • You should never lie to your wife about anything other than the secret date party or birthday trip you have planned for her to surprise her.
  • One small lie in enough to destroy the relationship. You should also never cheat on your wife.
  • That will just devastate her and would mean the end of the relationship. If you feel that your love for your wife has diminished, give your marriage a second chance.

4. Be Active:

  • Most wives hate lazy husbands and by lazy it does not mean that you won’t watch the football match on Sunday evening.
  • Be active about daily activities. So, the next time you get the chance, clean the house or put away the garbage in the trash can and then notice the glimmer in her eyes.

5. Don’t Be Selfish:

  • Selfish men are a big no for women, and thus, you should never be one.
  • You should never prevent your wife from doing something if that brings fame or glory to her.
  • You need to learn the art of compromise which is not rocket science at all. There’s no shame in losing to your wife.

6. No Abuses:

  • You’re the person who is there to protect your wife and give her comfort.
  • Thus, if you abuse her, no matter physically or verbally, it’ll give a huge blow to your relationship.
  • While in an argument, you should never raise your voice or scream at her.
  • Sarcasm about something that you two are unable to come to a decision should always be prohibited.
  • Lastly, you should never be violent against her.

7. Make Her Feel Special:

  • You need to make her feel special. There’s nothing more pleasant for a wife when her husband pampers her.
  • Pampering doesn’t mean that you have but her prolific gifts. It’s just the small things she likes.
  • One of the best ways to pamper your wife is to forge a great and caring relationship with your in-laws, she will simply love this.
  • You can take her out on a sudden trip or surprise her with a small gift.
  • If your wife is into charity, you can simply write a cheque for the charity she supports.

8. Be Open:

  • There should never be any ifs or buts in your relationship. You should be open and easily approachable for your wife.
  • She should be able to share her darkest and dirtiest secrets without any fear of negligence or abuse. That you love to be intimate with her makes her feel like a princess.

9. Show Your Affection:

  • If you’re still thinking how to do so, give her a hug or a little peck on her cheeks in the middle of a busy street and see how her cheeks turn red.
  • You come back from office, and you see her busy in daily chores or professional activities, wrap your arms from behind her and see how her eyes dazzle.
  • You can also surprise her by decorating your bedroom romantically before she comes to bed at night.

10. Keep The Romance Intact:

  • Don’t assume that there’s no need to keep the flames of romance burning.
  • One of the prime ingredients to make a marriage work is a healthy romantic life. You can plan trips or at least dinner outings or a movie date once a month or so.
  • If she is an adrenaline junkie, how about skydiving or whale watching trips? If you’ve been in a relationship before your marriage, there’ll be so many memorable dates like the date you first met, the date you proposed, the date you first hugged or kissed and likewise.
  • If you remember these dates and celebrate them, your wife will be so happy. And last but not the least, the activities in the bed should be easy and enjoyable for both the parties and not just a regular activity.
  • You should try to ease your wife in as many different ways you can.

11. Be Supportive:

  • Your wife is a different entity with her career plans and way of living. You should be supportive towards her ideas and plans and lend a helping hand to complete them.
  • If you see your wife is awake at nights to finish her workplace assignments, you can sit beside her and give her company or make her a hot mug of coffee, and she will remember this gesture for a lifetime.
  • She is part of some cultural activity, and you visit the auditorium to cheer her, it’s a guarantee that she will treat you well for this.

12. Trust Her:

  • You need to trust your wife to the core, and this will make the relationship firm. You need to become trustworthy yourself too.
  • If the trust factor is missing from the relationship, that the end of it. There’re so many examples that marriages have turned sour due to trust issues.

13. Be Yourself:

  • Your wife falls in love with you and not somebody else. So you should never change yourself and become someone else she likes, like the celebrity she is crazy about.
  • The other thing which is a strict no is hiding any aspect of your personality from her. You should not say that there’s nothing called a perfect human being, and thus, you should not hide your dark sides.
  • Introduce her to all your relatives and make her a part of your extended family at the earliest.
  • You should always share your doubts and fears with her and never hide to become manlier.
  • If you have plans for your future, you should make her a big part of them.

14. The Golden Rule:

  • If all married couples could have successfully done this, there would never have been a case of divorce.
  • Before you say anything to her or doing anything to her or judging about why she did something which you did not like, you should put yourself in her shoes. You should always try to see from her perspective.
  • It may happen that you find your wife’s perspective is wrong but then you can always discuss it without getting into an argument.
  • She is also a person with her ideas and visions; you should always respect this fact.

15. Make Yourself Beautiful:

  • If you’re laughing about this or are thinking how weird this is, you just need to think again.
  • If you look good, maintain a proper hygiene, this will not affect the marriage at all, rather your wife will love the fact that you’re devoting time to making yourself more beautiful in her eyes.
  • If she has a thing for clean shaved men, how much time or effort does it take to get shaved? If she hates foul breath, which for a fact is unhealthy also, how long does it take to brush before going to bed at night? These are the small things which will make her love you even more than before
So how many of the boxes were you able to tick? You can always try to remember these points and make yourself worthier in the eyes of your wife. Share your successful marriage stories with us here! In the comment box below👇🏻






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